Not one for a BNO (Big Night Out) or a wild bar crawl? No fear—Bridebook is here to help. We know the classic hen party formula isn’t for everyone. In fact, more and more brides are opting for non-traditional or personalised hen parties, meaning the celebration feels unique, inclusive, and true to them.

If you’re keen to learn more about alternative, creative, and non-traditional hen celebrations (besides some classic hen staples), read on. We’ve rounded up the 45 most popular options, including plenty of alcohol-free gems that prove you don’t need prosecco to have the time of your life.

What is a hen party?

A hen party is a pre-wedding celebration attended by the bride’s friends, family, and bridal party. It used to be called their “last night of freedom” and was intended to be one final hoorah before married life began.

These days, though, hen parties are less about saying goodbye to freedom and more about honouring the bride’s next chapter. It’s about celebrating the bride in a way that feels fun and authentic to her. Whether that’s dancing all night, a sweet sleepover, or something a bit more adventurous, all that matters is that the bride has fun!

Do I need to have a hen party?

You don’t, but it is nice. A hen party doesn’t need to be a traditional boozy, nightclub-heavy hen party. This is about you, and it can involve whatever and whomever you’d like. Think of it as a fun party with all your nearest and dearest as opposed to a stereotypical rowdy hen party, and you may start to warm up to the idea!

45 best hen party ideas

Looking for some fun and unusual hen party ideas? We’ve rounded up our top 45 suggestions, as well as listing some popular vendors and locations to bring them to life. From cosy nights in to wild adventures, boozy brunches to totally alcohol-free weekends, there’s something here for every kind of bride tribe.

You may also like: This list is geared towards hen parties in the UK and Ireland. If you’re looking for overseas hen do ideas, check out our dedicated guide.

London-based hen party ideas

Looking to live it up in the UK’s capital? Read on for our eight favourite London hen party spots.

1) Afternoon tea

Classy, understated, and quintessentially British, an afternoon tea at Brown’s is every little girl’s dream. If you’re looking for something a little fancier, the Peter Pan-themed afternoon tea at The Shard is pure magic, as is the luxury afternoon tea at The Ritz, complete with champagne, finger sandwiches, and tiered cakes fit for royalty.

It’s worth noting that afternoon teas can be either boozy or completely alcohol free, so it’s a great option for brides who aren’t drinking or prefer to keep things low-key.

2) Catch a show

Gather your girls and make a night of it at the theatre. Something like The The Greatest Showman or Wicked are great options if you want to feel uplifted and inspired. Alternatively, consider Magic Mike if you’re looking to turn up the heat and have a cheeky, laugh-filled evening you’ll never forget. Whatever your preference, you’re spoilt for choice with the world-class performances in London’s West End.

3) Floating hot tub ride

Fancy floating down the Thames in your very own personal hot tub? These brilliant and quirky hot tubs are heated to the perfect temperature, come complete with drinks holders, and give you unbeatable views of the city as you drift along. It’s a totally Instagram-worthy experience and a guaranteed way to make your hen do stand out from the rest.

4) Spa day

A classic for hen party weekends, consider spots like ESPA at the Corinthia, Claridges, or the gorgeous spaces at the The Londoner. These luxe retreats offer a range of customisable treatments like salt scrubs, full-body massages, facials, and even champagne pedicures. Perfect for brides who’d rather unwind than go wild, a spa day gives you that dreamy mix of pampering and quality time with your favourite people.

5) See the sights

Head on a classic sightseeing trip around the UK capital. You can either jump on an open-top bus tour (if the weather allows) or hit all the big landmarks in one whirlwind afternoon. Think Buckingham Palace, Tower Bridge, Big Ben, and the London Eye.

Alternatively, you could plan a themed sightseeing trip, like famous wedding spots or iconic filming locations for movie buffs. The Notting Hill bookshop, Bridget Jones’ front door, or Harry Potter’s Platform 9¾ all make for fab photo ops and a fun twist on a classic tour.

6) Get crafty

Crafty activities like pottery painting, jewellery making, or paint-and-sips are great options if you’d like a memento to remember your hen party by. Try searching on TikTok or Instagram for local studios that may be offering themed hen workshops and get cracking on your bridal keepsakes. Think custom wine glasses, a special ring box, or a piece of DIY jewellery to wear on the day.

7) Mamma Mia: The Party

A classic for a reason. Mamma Mia: The Party is an all-singing, all-dancing ABBA spectacular. With food, drinks, and entertainment included in the price, it’s a guaranteed hit no matter the size or vibe of the group. Follow up with some disco-themed cocktails or a night of karaoke to keep the energy going.

Pro tip: You’ll need to book this in advance. It’s very popular and tickets sell out quickly, so the earlier you lock it in, the better your seats and overall experience will be.

8) Drag Bottomless Brunch

Drag the girls to brunch and get ready for sass, sequins, and side-splitting laughs. With free-flowing prosecco and delicious dishes, this is one of the most underrated activities on this list. Mrs Riot is a great spot for a truly immersive drag brunch, with world-class entertainers and fun cocktails. However, if you’d prefer something a little smaller, Nikkis Bar in Shoreditch or Blame Gloria are also great choices.

Manchester-based hen party ideas

If you’d prefer a weekend up North, check out these eight Manchester-based hen party ideas.

9) A guided cheese crawl

Yes, really! Sign up for a guided cheese crawl and nibble your way around Manchester’s best cheese stops, complete with wine pairings and expert hosts. Perfect for foodie brides who’d rather swap tequila shots for stilton samples, this quirky activity is equal parts delicious and memorable. It’s a cheese lover’s dream.

10) Chocolate-making class

The hen activity to end all hen activities, a chocolate-making class is fun, hands-on, and indulgent. Spend the afternoon tempering, moulding, and decorating your own creations (all while sampling along the way). ClassBento offers a ton of different workshops, from truffles to bonbons to Dubai chocolate classes, so you can really tailor the session to the bride’s tastes. It’s the perfect mix of creativity and sweet tooth satisfaction.

11. Junkyard Golf

A hen party classic, Junkyard Golf is a fun and brilliantly bonkers activity for groups of all sizes. You’re sure to have seen some of the crazy courses on your Instagram feed, like the infamous neon room or the cool but creepy carousel. Pair it with a few themed cocktails and some friendly competition, and you’ve got yourself a hilarious, no-pressure hen activity that everyone can get stuck into.

The best part? There are courses all over the UK, so there’s no need to travel too far to experience the craziness!

Pro tip: if you’re a bigger group, it’s good golfing etiquette to let smaller groups go ahead of you. It prevents a backflow and gives you more time to sip your cocktails between holes!

12) Chester Zoo

Some 40 miles from the middle of Manchester is Chester Zoo—the UK’s biggest (and best) zoo. Home to over 35,000 animals, it’s a brilliant hen do option for brides who love wildlife and want something a little different. Wander the expansive grounds, take in the stunning botanical gardens, and snap photos with giraffes, elephants, and big cats.

It’s wholesome, unexpected, and is sure to create lasting memories.

Did you know: You can actually get married in Chester Zoo? They have gorgeous function rooms overlooking the giraffe enclosure, and the cost of the ticket is included in the catering price, so guests can wander the grounds in between the ceremony and the reception. A truly wild wedding, if ever there was one!

13) Stadium Tours

Big football fan? Manchester is the home of Manchester City and Manchester United, two of the UK’s biggest football teams. Take a tour of their legendary grounds and walk the players’ tunnel, peek inside the dressing rooms, and even step out pitch-side for that full match-day magic.

If you have time, Liverpool and Everton football clubs are some 30 miles away, as well as a number of smaller teams like Bolton Wanderers or Wigan Athletic. It’s a brilliant hen activity for sporty brides who want something different from the usual prosecco-fuelled day out.

14) Bingo Lingo

The rowdiest bingo this side of the Atlantic, Bingo Lingo is nothing like the game your nan used to play. Think thumping music, dance-offs, rave intervals, and ridiculous prizes (we’re talking inflatable unicorns, trays of shots, a giant box of Pot Noodles, or the inimitable Henry Hoover).

It’s chaotic, hilarious, and the perfect way to let loose with the girls. Whether you win big or leave empty-handed, you’re guaranteed a night of belly laughs and funny stories.

15) Bottomless brunch

You can’t go wrong with a classic bottomless brunch. However, not all brunches are created equal, and there are a few standout spots that will get you more for your money. Turtle Bay, for example, is all-you-can-drink cocktails for an hour and a half, while Dirty Martini and Manahatta bring a party vibe with live DJs, glittering decor, and fabulous service.

Whatever you choose, a bottomless brunch is the best way to get the party started!

16) Alcotraz

A fun and totally unique cocktail experience, Alcotraz is an immersive bar that lets you play inmate for the night and explain yourself to the warden. You’ll need to sneak your booze in past the guards (it’s forbidden, don’t forget!) and then sit back in your cell while “inmate bartenders” craft deliciously inventive drinks from your stash. Expect orange jumpsuits, theatrical performances, and plenty of laughs!

Midlands-based hen party ideas

Birmingham-based? Check out these Midlands-adjacent hen party ideas and plan an unforgettable hen.

17) Wine tasting

An oldie, but a goody. Wine tasting is a fun and classy hen party activity where you can have a few drinks and learn a little about what makes wine so interesting. Whether you try Vagabond Wines, Loki Wines, or Local Wine School, you’ll be guided through a variety of bottles with plenty of opportunities to sip, swirl, and snack on cheese.

It’s the perfect mix of sophisticated and social, and you’ll be able to impress everyone at your next dinner party with your fabulous knowledge of flavour palettes.

18) Rent a whole canal boat

Cruise on down the canal with your very own boat party. This Birmingham classic gives you the freedom to sip prosecco, blast your favourite playlists, and see the city from a totally new angle. Take a picnic and some disposable cameras, and you’ve got the perfect, aesthetic day out.

19) 90s dance class

If you’re looking for something fun and active, a 90s dance party class could be just the thing. Suitable for groups of all abilities, this throwback activity is all about letting loose and channelling your inner Spice Girl. It’s fun, unique, and you’ll get a ton of photos and videos to take away with you. Plus, an extra bottle of bubbly to be enjoyed on the way home—what could be more perfect?

20) Flower crown workshop

Live your whimsical, fairy-girl dreams with a flower crown-making workshop. Whether your vibe is more woodland maiden or noughties festival queen, this activity is creative, calming, and leaves you with a gorgeous keepsake to wear for the rest of the day (or even the wedding morning!). What could be more wholesome?

21) Indoor go-karting

TeamSport in Birmingham has the largest indoor go-karting track in the UK, so if you’re an adrenaline junkie or just a little competitive, this could be the hen do for you. It’s suitable for groups of up to 16 and guarantees high-speed thrills and plenty of friendly rivalries. Split into teams, don your race suits, and battle it out for the podium finish.

22) West Midlands Safari Park

If you’re looking for something wholesome and sober, West Midlands Safari Park could be a winner. This drive-through safari park is perfect for animal lovers and gives you the chance to get up close with lions, elephants, and rhinos, all from the comfort of your car. There’s also a theme park with rollercoasters and luxury lodges for overnight stays if you’re hoping to make a weekend of it.

23) The Big Birmingham Bake

Always wanted to take part in Bake Off but don’t want to go on the telly? Try The Big Birmingham Bake. Step inside their fully equipped marquee kitchen and compete in a timed baking challenge against your fellow hens. With all ingredients and guidance provided, it’s equal parts chaotic and creative, and you’ll end up with a showstopper bake to tuck into afterwards. Perfect for foodies, competitive spirits, or just groups who love a laugh.

24) Axe throwing

Axe throwing has become a popular birthday and team-building activity in recent years. But it can also be a really fun hen do option for brides who want something a little bit different. Test your aim, let off some steam, and channel your inner viking as you hurl axes at wooden targets. It’s surprisingly therapeutic, and you’ll have a great time cheering each other on. Just hold the bubbly until after you’re finished—we wouldn’t want any accidents!

Welsh hen parties ideas

Heading to Wales for a hen weekend? Consider these fun and unforgettable activities that make the most of the country’s stunning scenery.

25) Last toast on the coast

Head to the gorgeous Isle of Anglesey in North West Wales for wide open skies, sandy beaches, and unbeatable sunsets for a ‘Last Toast On The Coast’ hen party theme. Spots like Benllech, Trearddur Bay, and Rhosneigr have great options for big group rental houses right on the beach, and there are plenty of bars, coffee shops, and water sports to keep you busy.

26) ZipWorld

If you’re a bit of an adrenaline junkie, ZipWorld in Snowdonia is a must. Home to the longest zip line in Europe, you’ll soar over stunning Welsh quarries at speeds of up to 100mph. For something a little gentler, ZipWorld also offers underground trampolines, forest coasters, and cavern adventures. Perfect if your group has a mix of thrill-seekers and chill-seekers.

27) Gavin and Stacey tour

If you’re a fan of this iconic love story, the Gavin and Stacey Tour could be the perfect quirky hen activity. Head to Barry Island and visit all the show’s famous filming spots—from Stacey’s house to Marco’s Café and, of course, Nessa’s Slots. Expect plenty of quotes, photo ops, and early noughties nostalgia.

28) Disco dodgeball

Dodgeball with a fun and funky twist! Disco Dodgeball combines old-school disco music with the chaos of a dodgeball game. With a lively co-ordinator to keep the games flowing, pump up the tunes, and add in silly challenges, you’ll be laughing from start to finish. It’s high-energy and completely unique with glitter, glow sticks, and plenty of dance breaks between throws.

29) Cardiff International Whitewater Centre

Another one for adrenaline lovers, Cardiff’s International White Water Centre is perfect for those who love water sports or are just dipping their toe (pun intended) into adventure. Try white-water rafting, indoor surfing, paddle boarding, or even canoeing with your crew. It’s equal parts thrilling and team-building, and you’ll come away buzzing (and probably a little damp!). Finish it off with hot chocolates or cocktails nearby to warm up and swap stories from the rapids.

Scottish hen party ideas

Scotland is another beautiful country in which to have your hen do. Whether you’re looking for Edinburgh’s city vibes or prefer the cool, calm waters of Loch Lomond, there’s something for everyone in this gorgeous land.

30) Edinburgh ghost walk

If you’re a fan of the spooky and macabre, an Edinburgh ghost walk could be just the thing for you. There are multiple options for guided tours that take you through the city’s haunted closes, underground vaults, and eerie cemeteries. Storytellers bring the city’s dark history to life with chilling tales and theatrical flair, making it equal parts entertaining and terrifying.

It’s a brilliant way to bond with your hens (screaming together definitely counts as team building!) and gives you a quirky memory to laugh about over cocktails afterwards. Perfect for brides who like a little thrill with their celebration.

31) Glamping in Perthshire

If you’d prefer something a little more low-key, there are a ton of glamping options in Sterling and Perthshire. Take the time to kick back with your girls: head on some pretty walks, spend the evenings together barbecuing, and cosy up under the stars with blankets and a bottle (or two) of prosecco. It’s wholesome, relaxed, and perfect for brides who’d rather swap high heels for hiking boots.

32) Paint and sip

Paint and sips are a fun and relaxed way to bond with your hens in a creative setting. It involves following a guided painting tutorial with a glass of prosecco (or mocktail) in hand. No prior art skills required, just a sense of humour and a willingness to get messy.

The beauty of a paint and sip is that you can either attend a ticketed event or keep it cheap and cheerful with a DIY setup at home. All you need is a Bob Ross tutorial, some paints and canvases, and a bottle of bubbly!

33) Loch Lomond outdoor escape

Another one for the outdoor lovers, there are a ton of outdoor activities you can sign up for on the iconic Loch Lomond. Whether it’s a boat cruise, paddleboarding, kayaking, or even a wild swim, the scenery is unbeatable. Wrap up the day with a cosy lakeside dinner or a barbecue under the stars for a wholesome, scenic hen do adventure.

34) High ropes course

High rope courses like Go Ape or Action Glen are perfect if your bride tribe is up for a little adrenaline. Clamber across wobbly bridges, zip through the trees, and tackle obstacle courses high above the ground. Expect lots of laughs and a few screams as you bond up to 115 ft in the air!

Irish hen party ideas

Heading to the Emerald Isle for your hen party weekend? Check out these fun and unforgettable ideas for your adventures in beautiful Ireland.

35) Beer bike city tour

Dublin Pedal Tours are one of the most iconic hen party activities in Ireland. As a team, your job is to pedal a giant bike to move the bar-on-wheels while your guide navigates you around landmarks, bars, and the buzzing streets of Dublin. It’s tiring, but hilarious, and there’ll be plenty of stops along the way for refreshments.

36) Galway bar crawl

Galway has one of the best pub cultures in Ireland, and you’ll be spoilt for choice in the colourful streets. From cosy traditional pubs with live Irish folk music to trendy cocktail spots serving up Instagram-worthy drinks, there’s something for everyone. The atmosphere is electric, the locals are famously friendly, and the music is world-class. Do yourself a favour and hit up Galway as part of your celebrations.

37) Father Ted experience

Infinitley quotable and iconic, the Father Ted experience is a must for fans of the cult Irish sitcom. You can visit filming locations like Craggy Island, take part in a themed quiz, and even tuck into a classic “Mrs Doyle” style afternoon tea. Expect plenty of laughs, inside jokes, and a healthy dose of nostalgia.

38) Escape rooms

If you love a puzzle or fancy yourself a bit of a detective, escape rooms like Incognito Escape Room or Escape Dublin are a brilliant choice. Work together as a team to solve clues, crack codes, and beat the clock before time runs out. It’s high-energy and a great way to break the ice, so consider scheduling this at the beginning of your hen party weekend for maximum impact.

39) Party bus

Travel in style with a certified party bus. Decked out with LED lighting, this bus has built-in dancerfloors, a killer sound system, karaoke, and more refreshments than you’ll know what to do with. It’s basically a nightclub on wheels, so you can keep the party going as you move from bar to bar (or just never leave the bus at all!). Try VIP Buses, Party Buses Ireland, or Absolute Limos.

DIY hen party ideas

Looking to get creative with a DIY hen do? Consider these three options for brides who’d rather roll up their sleeves than splash out on pricey packages.

40) Fancy dress night

A themed fancy dress night is an absolute winner for laughs. Pick a theme—think Glamorous Grannies, Mean Girls, or even something cheeky like the bride’s ex-boyfriends—and get everyone to raid their wardrobes or hit the charity shops for the ultimate budget-friendly costumes. Add a runway show, silly awards (“Best Wig,” “Most Effort,” “Least Recognisable”), and plenty of photos, and you’ve got yourself a hilarious, memory-making evening.

41) Outdoor picnic

Grab your checked blanket and wicker basket and head down to your closest natural beauty spot. A quintessentially British picnic with strawberries and cream, cucumber sandwiches, sausage rolls, and maybe a cheeky bottle of bubbly can feel just as indulgent as a night out. Bring along some lawn games like rounders or boules, and it’s the perfect recipe for laid-back fun in the sun.

42) Girly sleepover

What could be better than having a nostalgic sleepover with your girls? All you’ll need are matching PJs, facemasks, some classic films like Freaky Friday or Wild Child, and endless snacks. Throw in a DIY cocktail (or mocktail) station, a game of “Never Have I Ever,” and maybe even a karaoke session, and you’ve got yourself the ultimate cosy hen night in. Bonus points if you build a blanket fort or dig out an old-school popcorn machine!

Alcohol-free hen party ideas

A big boozy night out isn’t for everyone. If that’s the case, check out these 100% alcohol-free hen party options that are every bit as fun, just not as boozy.

43) Memory evening

A night of reminiscing with the girls can be one of the most heartwarming ways to celebrate. Ask everyone to bring a photo, a story, or even create a PowerPoint presentation of their favourite memories of the bride, and spend the evening sharing and laughing. Create a scrapbook or memory box on the night so the bride has something to treasure forever.

44) Retro games night

Break out the Cluedo, Buckaroo, Ludo, and Monopoly (if you’re feeling brave), and get ready for some good old-fashioned competition. Mix in classics like Twister or charades for some silliness, and you’ve got a wholesome, laughter-filled evening that doesn’t need a drop of alcohol. Pair it with pizza, sweet treats, and maybe some non-alcoholic fizz to really complete the night.

45) Themed film marathon

Ready for a James Bond marathon, or perhaps you’d prefer Pirates Of The Caribbean or an ode to Anne Hathaway? Whatever your vice, a themed film marathon is the ultimate cosy hen option. Get everyone to come in pyjamas, stock up on popcorn and pick ‘n’ mix, and create little mocktails to match the films (espresso martinis for Bond, rum punch for Jack Sparrow, or something pink and sparkly for The Princess Diaries).

It’s budget-friendly, super relaxed, and perfect for brides who’d rather laugh, snack, and quote iconic lines than hit the dancefloor.

You might also like: Many of our other ideas above can be made alcohol-free if you and your girls would prefer. There’s no need to drink at a hen party sleepover, escape room, paint and sip, or fun day out at the zoo. Swap cocktails for mocktails, prosecco for sparkling elderflower, and you’ve still got all the fun without the fuzzy head the next morning.

Hen party FAQs

What happens at hen parties?

Hen parties are as unique as the bride and her friends, and anything could happen at a hen party! All that’s guaranteed is love, friendship, and lots and lots of laughs.

How long do hen parties last?

Traditionally, hen parties were just a day or an evening, but many brides now love to extend the celebration and invite their friends to join them for a fun-filled weekend, whether in the UK or abroad.

Can I wear jeans to a hen party?

You can wear jeans to a hen party if the activities allow for it! Jeans may not be the best option for a spa day or an outdoor retreat, but they would be perfect for a day at the zoo or an escape room.

Who gets invited to a hen party?

The bride’s friends, family, and the wedding party are usually invited to a hen party, but it’s totally up to the bride and who she wants to be there.

Is there cake at a hen party?

There can certainly be cake if the bride wants cake! A hen party cake isn’t traditional, but lots of brides love the idea of some cute celebratory cupcakes, cake pops, or bento cakes for their hens.

The bottom line on throwing a hen party

There are so many options for hen party planning, and something for every bride. Whether you fancy a chilled weekend glamping or a big night out in London or Manchester, the options really are endless. What’s important is that the bride feels celebrated in a way that’s true to her personality. If she’s laughing, relaxed, and surrounded by her favourite people, you’ve nailed it—and that’s a hen party success in anyone’s book!

So gather the bride tribe, pop open the fizz (or the mocktails, if you prefer), and get planning the perfect hen do. Whatever you choose, you’ll create memories that will last long after the confetti’s been cleared.

45 Best Hen Party Ideas