What a silly question !
Intuitive !
Quality, Integrity, Longevity
Allow more time, the day will be shorter than you think. Don't attempt to fit too much in, figure out what's really important for you whether that's impressing the distant relatives and turning them green with jealousy at the lavishness, or spending time in close contact with your most loved ones on your Wedding Day
Speeches that come from the Heart from the Groom, that are for Bride, not the crowd !
We meet, look at photo's / Albums, talk, see if we click, take it from there. Skype is possible if far away.
The one that's most important to the couple !
Playing Saxophone, Superman across Piano, Fishing Rod Chap, Cricket guy, and VW Beetle couple all come to mind ..................
An Umbrella
My dad gave me a Kodak 110 when I was 7 years old for Christmas. By school age while some kids were playing football etc in lunch breaks, I was hand printing black and white in a darkroom ...............................