

Goofy grin and bended knee may be optional when you pop the question, but an engagement ring style your partner will treasure is an essential part of proposal protocol.
Your partner will wear their ring every day for a very long time, so it’s worth putting in the effort to choose a rock they’ll want to show off.
While size matters to some, clarity, cut, metal choice, and colour are just as important which is why we’ve covered everything you need to know about the different types of engagement rings, and how to choose the right one for you, below.
Whether you’re choosing together or shopping on the sly, our lowdown on cuts, settings, and popular engagement ring shapes will guide you through the rocks to that perfect piece of jewellery.
Disclaimer: Ring designs, availability and pricing are subject to change. Always confirm current details directly with the retailer or jeweller before purchasing.
Engagement Ring Style | Defining Feature | Best For |
Solitaire | Single stone, no accent diamonds | Classic, timeless, lets the stone speak for itself |
Toi et moi | Two stones side by side, often different shapes | Couples wanting something distinctive and symbolic |
Trilogy/three-stone | Three stones in a row, usually graduated in size | Symbolic meaning (past, present, future); more visual impact than a solitaire |
Halo | Centre stone ringed by smaller diamonds | Making a smaller centre stone look larger; those who want extra sparkle |
Vintage/art deco | Period-inspired detailing – milgrain, filigree, geometric shapes | Couples wanting heritage character over a modern look |
Cluster | Several smaller stones grouped to look like one larger stone | Maximum sparkle on a smaller budget |

When we talk about the different engagement ring styles, some describe the engagement ring setting – the method by which the stone is secured to the ring – while others are simply design aesthetics. Either way, you’ll find a wealth of different styles on the market, each with their own unique characteristics.
If you’re feeling dazzled by all the options, here are the most popular ones:

The most iconic engagement ring setting; solitaire settings allow the gemstone or diamond to take centre-stage.

Toi et moi translates as ‘you and me’ – cute, right? In the world of jewellery though, it describes a ring style that features not one, but two main gemstones set side by side or close together.

These feature a central diamond or gemstone flanked by two significantly sized side gemstones, said to represent your relationship’s past, present, and future journey. Sweet!

For those who want maximum dazzle, a halo setting could be for you.

Vintage engagement ring styles will continue to reign supreme for 2027 – think art deco-inspired step-cuts (square and rectangular diamonds or gemstones like that of an emerald cut) and cluster settings (which we delve into more below).

As couples opt for more personalised engagement ring styles, the cluster ring is up there as one of the classic solitaire’s biggest challengers. And for good reason!

Of course, buying an engagement ring as a surprise is still the ultimate romantic option – but it’s not without risk. Consider your partner’s style, and maybe even do a reccy of their jewellery box or Pinterest board before you start shopping to get more of an idea of what they’d like, and the metals and jewellery designs usually they wear.
Likewise, many couples now opt for the ‘safer’ option of buying the ring together. However you’re shopping for your rock, here are some things to consider when choosing the right engagement ring shape:
Factor in daily activities, hobbies, and their profession. For those who have a more hands-on job, for example, halo and cluster settings can need more frequent cleaning or checking than a solitaire.
A very ornate setting might feel out of place for someone who prefers minimal jewellery, while a plain solitaire can feel underwhelming to someone with a more maximalist style.
One month’s salary? Two? Whatever your resources for buying the ring, don’t skimp but also don’t bankrupt yourself – find a comfortable compromise.
Okay, we’re not talking about cost here, we’re talking about the stone. Understanding the difference between carat, clarity, colour, and cut will allow you to know exactly what your hard-earned cash is being spent on. Size doesn’t matter unless you think it matters to your partner, so don’t feel pressured to go big and likewise, flawless stones (aka clarity) are expensive so don’t worry about tiny imperfections that are practically invisible to the naked eye.
Consider the stone’s source, too. Always opt for sustainably sourced diamonds or consider lab-grown diamonds, which are just as beautiful, better for the environment and notably less expensive.
Always buy from an established jeweller with a good reputation – they’ll know their onions and will be more likely to let you change or alter the ring if you’re purchasing it undercover. Some even offer a free cleaning service for life. The retailer should also be able to tell you where the diamonds or gemstones have come from.
Finally, if you’re buying the engagement ring as a surprise, ensure you give yourself enough time to shop around so you don’t feel pressured into making an impulse decision. If you go down the custom route, you’ll need to allow around six to eight weeks for the ring to be made.
Still unsure of which engagement ring style to choose? A solitaire or simple trilogy is often the safest starting point. These engagement ring shapes suit the widest range of tastes and are easiest to resize or reset later if tastes change.

A solitaire engagement ring features a single stone with no other diamonds or stones on the setting, while a halo is a single central stone surrounded by a ring of smaller accent gemstones.
A single solitaire ring offers a cleaner, more minimalist look, while a halo engagement ring tends to be more sparkly, bolder, and sometimes even vintage-looking in style.
The bezel setting is the most durable. In a bezel setting, the central diamond or gemstone is completely enclosed by a metal border in the same metal as the band, as opposed to being held in place by delicate prongs or claws. It’s a look that feels sleek and modern, and the gemstone feels a bit more secure and protected – perfect for those who tend to be a bit clumsy or have hands-on jobs.
In terms of durability, platinum is often considered the best metal for an engagement ring. The dense metal isn’t prone to wear and tear, so it’s great for daily wear.
A toi et moi ring isn’t necessarily more expensive than a solitaire, despite having two main gemstones instead of one. The price of your engagement ring will depend on the gemstones you choose, their combined carat weight, and the metal you choose for your setting.
Lab-grown diamonds, for example, can be significantly cheaper than natural mined diamonds.
While the toi et moi engagement ring has seen a huge surge in popularity, it’s the classic choices that remain the most popular. The iconic solitaire diamond is a firm favourite because it’s timeless, elegant, and probably considered the ‘safer’ choice for those buying the ring as a surprise.
You can add a halo to a solitaire engagement ring later. Depending on the style of your current ring, many professional jewellers are able to solder a custom-made halo to fit snugly around your central stone. Traditional prong settings make adding the halo easier.
The three stones on a trilogy ring don’t necessarily need to match, but they do need to work together and look intentional. Traditional designs tend to feature a large central stone flanked by two smaller stones that are the same, but many modern designs now play about with stone shapes, different colours, and alternating cuts.
Popping the question’s the easy part… now it’s time to plan the wedding! We’ve got indispensable wedding-planning tips to help guide you through every part of your day when you sign up to Bridebook today.

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