Wedding favours offer you the opportunity to provide your guests with a small gift or keepsake that they can take home (or eat!) and remember the time they spent celebrating with you on your big day.
But when you’re already spending thousands on your wedding, how much should you spend on wedding favours that are thoughtful, personal and something that your guests are going to appreciate?
Below, we’re going to take a look at the cost of wedding favours, including the average amount couples spend, how much some of the most popular wedding favours cost, and what factors can influence how much you might spend.
Wedding favours are small tokens or gifts given to guests to thank them for celebrating your special day. These personal touches serve as keepsakes and a lovely way to show appreciation to your friends and family.
Favours don’t have to break the bank — many cost around R20 each — but they still make a thoughtful impression. Some couples opt for DIY wedding favours, which can range from a packet of homemade biscuits to personalised mini candles or seed packets (though personalised options will generally cost more).
Still, even the most affordable or handmade favours can add up, especially with around 100 guests. Considering the average wedding in South Africa costs about R200,000, it’s worth asking: if you’re working with a tight budget, is this one of the extras you could skip to save money?
While favours aren’t something that your guests will expect — and certainly aren’t the reason they’re coming to your wedding — their absence may be noticed by some (but certainly not all). In fact, some of your guests may choose to not take their favour home at all, and if you’re gifting food or sweets, they may even be devoured before the first course is served at the breakfast or dinner.
If you’re looking to save budget, or it’s simply not something that interests you or fits with your style or theme of your wedding, then you shouldn’t feel pressured to provide favours simply to appease others or because it’s something you believe your guests expect — because they definitely don’t.
In South Africa, couples typically spend an average of R3,000 to R15,000 on wedding favours (it’s about 2% of what couples pay for the average wedding venue). While this may seem like a small slice of the total wedding budget, the costs can add up quickly — especially if you’re choosing personalised, handmade gifts or have a large guest list of 120 or more.
If you’re keen to stick to tradition without overspending, simple options like a packet of sweets or a small jar of homemade jam can work beautifully. For example, 250 packets of fizzers or chocolate hearts could cost around R500, leaving you with a sweet stash of extras for later!
If you’re looking for some wedding favour ideas but you’re not quite sure where to start, the below guide will give you a rough guide for how much some popular wedding favours cost so you can gauge if they fit within your budget.
If you’re on a budget, it can be much cheaper to do wedding favours yourself. However, if you’re looking for highly personal or customised favours, such as personalised playing cards, you may find the DIY approach more challenging. If you haven’t done anything similar before, there’s also the risk of inconsistent quality.
If you’re looking for something simple, such as a bag of retro lollies, you should be able to put this together with little effort and without much room for error. It should save you some money, too.
When choosing wedding favours, as well as the type of favours you go for, there are several factors to bear in mind which can impact the overall cost.
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