The Ultimate Guide to Planning Your Own Taylor Swift Wedding

With Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce newly engaged, the Swiftie world is officially buzzing. And if you’re secretly (or not so secretly) planning a Taylor-coded celebration of your own, then you’re in luck – we’ve pulled together the ultimate guide to creating a wedding day inspired by Taylor’s music, aesthetics and all the magical Eras, so you can tell your own love story, your way. 

From the perfect venue and playlist to personalised friendship bracelet favours and ultra glam Mirrorball decor, here’s how to plan your own Taylor Swift wedding. 

So are you …Ready For It? Let’s dive in!

You can also take our Taylor Eras wedding quiz here!

Dreamy Taylor-Inspired Wedding Venues… by Era

First things first – choose your dream venue! You might wish to match the style and aesthetic of a particular venue type to one or several of Taylor’s Eras. Here are some ideas:

Debut – Rustic barns, countryside farms, meadows with wildflower backdrops.

Bridebook picks: 

• The Old Kent Barn – a countryside gem with charming rustic beams and open fields.
• Brookfield Barn – a luxury countryside retreat set on a tranquil lake.
• Crockwell Farm – a family-run barn venue with cosy character and sweeping views.

Fearless – Fairytale castles or grand ballrooms, full of magical golden sparkle.

Bridebook picks: 

• Hever Castle and Gardens – storybook romance in Anne Boleyn’s childhood home.
• Prestwold Hall – stately grandeur with glittering chandeliers and timeless charm.
• The Italian Villa at Compton Acres – Mediterranean elegance with gardens and fountains.

Speak Now – Historic estates, gothic cathedrals, whimsical castles.

Bridebook picks: 

• Hedsor House – regal and cinematic, oozing timeless grandeur. 
• Hampton Castle – a medieval castle backdrop with dramatic gothic flair.
• Ragley Hall – an opulent ancestral estate set in the heart of Shakespeare’s England.

Red – Cosy manors, vineyard venues, autumnal country/manor houses.

Bridebook picks

• Goldsborough Hall – a stately country house with rich autumnal gardens.
• Stanlake Park Wine Estate –  a vineyard escape for wine lovers with rustic romance.
• Hargate Hall – a Victorian manor full of warmth, character and timeless charm.

1989 – Chic rooftop venues, city lofts, modern art galleries.

Bridebook picks:

• Fivefourstudios – an industrial-chic studio wedding venue with sleek, creative flair.
• Loft Studios – urban warehouse vibes with high ceilings and cool, exposed brick.
• Hen’s Teeth – a bold, modern gallery space perfect for trendsetters.

Reputation – Industrial warehouses, moody modern hotels, dramatic nightclubs.

Bridebook picks: 

• The Biscuit Factory – an edgy, art-filled warehouse with striking style.
• Victoria Warehouse – iconic industrial Manchester vibes on a grand scale.
• The Shack Revolution – a raw, urban space made for bold and dramatic celebrations.

Lover – Romantic gardens or marquees, glass conservatories filled with pastel florals.

Bridebook picks: 

• The Gardens – an enchanting Kent escape abounding in romantic blooms.
• The Orangery – light-filled glass elegance surrounded by manicured lawns.
• The Secret Garden (Ashford) – whimsical, floral, and full of Lover-style pastel romance.

Folklore/Evermore – Woodland venues, rustic barns, lakeside retreats.

Bridebook picks: 

• Cheshire Woodland Weddings – outdoor ceremonies framed by ancient woodland.
• Two Woods Estate – a towering redwood grove straight out of a fairytale.
• Cornish Tipi Weddings – wildly romantic woodland and lakeside ceremonies.

Midnights – Glamorous hotel ballrooms, glittering party halls, edgy rooftop clubs.

Bridebook picks: 

• Andaz London Liverpool Street Hotel – luxe city glamour with glittering ballrooms.
• Citation Weddings and Events – Glasgow grandeur meets late-night sparkle.
• The Libertine – a moody underground bar wedding venue with dramatic disco energy.

The Tortured Poets Department – Literary halls, historic libraries, eclectic arts venues.

Bridebook picks: 

• Roman Baths and Pump Room – unique ancient monument with flickering torchlight.
• Bodleian Library – historic literary venue steeped in romance and elegance.
• The Ashmolean Museum – a world where history, art and luxury converge.

The Ultimate Taylor-Inspired Playlist

If Taylor Swift is the soundtrack to your life, it only makes sense for her to soundtrack your wedding. But with hundreds of songs across 11 original studio albums (as well as The Life of a Showgirl on its way!), how do you choose the right track for each part of your day?

We’ve rounded up the best Taylor Swift songs for every wedding moment – from aisle walks to dancefloor anthems – to inspire your own Taylor-coded playlist. 

Walking down the aisle

Choose a moving, romantic Taylor classic.

• Begin Again – sweet lyrics about fresh starts, perfect for this moment.
• You Are In Love – goosebump-inducing, especially as an instrumental.
• Lover (First Dance Remix) – soft and romantic, designed for weddings.

Ceremony exit

As you embark on the starting line of married life, pick something joyful and celebratory. 

• Today Was a Fairytale – a classic wedding-coded choice.
• Mine – heartfelt, celebratory and personal. 
• Paper Rings – upbeat, cheeky and oh-so-fun with confetti flying.

Reception entrance

Set the tone for the party of a lifetime!

• Style – chic and cool for a glam entrance.
• …Ready For It? – dramatic, iconic, full of dramatic build-up.
• Bejeweled – you’ll be sure to make the whole place shimmer

Cake cutting

Keep the vibes playful.

• Our Song – classic throwback charm.
• Stay Stay Stay – cheeky and fun.
• Sweet Nothing – whimsical and romantic.

First dance

Romance at its peak.

• Love Story – a classic for a reason, the perfect accompaniment to your own love story.
• Enchanted – magical and sweeping, with lyrics made for this moment.
• King of My Heart – for a bold, less traditional pick.

Parent dances

Tender, emotional and meaningful.

• Never Grow Up – tearjerker for a father/daughter dance.
• The Best Day – nostalgic and heartfelt, especially for a mother/daughter moment. 
• Stay Beautiful – light, sweet and nostalgic. 

Opening up the dancefloor 

Time to get everyone moving and Shaking It Off…

• 22 – guaranteed to fill the dancefloor.
• Blank Space – playful, dramatic and super fun for singalongs.
• Shake It Off – unbeatable for that light, catchy energy.

Bouquet toss

Something cheeky and hype would work wonders. 

• You Belong With Me – iconic chorus, and a real crowd-pleaser.
• I Knew You Were Trouble – playful twist for whoever catches it.
• The Man – a tongue-in-cheek power anthem perfect for a strut-worthy celebration.

Last song

End on a high (or a few tears!).

• Long Live – lyrics about making memories together forever.
• New Year’s Day – intimate, soft and emotional.
• All Too Well (10-Minute Version) – perfect for a cathartic 1am scream-along.

Hidden gems

For those hardcore Swifties who want to weave in a few less-expected tracks, these deep cuts make for magical wedding moments that will leave a lasting impression. 

• Daylight  – A luminous, romantic alternative to Lover or New Year’s Day.
• Ivy – Beautifully ethereal and poetic, with its imagery of love entwining and flourishing.
• The Albatross – Hauntingly tender and literary, bringing quiet emotional depth.

Step Into Your Eras: A Wedding Day Inspired by Taylor

One way to bring Taylor’s magic into your wedding is to structure different parts of the day around her iconic Eras. Each album has its own story, colour palette and vibe – and your day can be a journey through them. Alternatively, you may wish to centre your day around just one or two of your favourite Eras, with more focused styling, theme and overarching mood. 

Getting Ready/Bridal Prep: Debut Era

Start your day with sweet, country-coded charm that sets a calm and joyful tone. Taylor’s debut album is where it all began for her, so it’s where your day can begin, too. 

• Decor: Wildflower bouquets on your dressing table, sunflower accents, mason jars with fresh blooms. You could also bring in and display old photos of you and your partner for a nostalgic touch, to look at as you and your bridal party get ready together.
• Fashion: Choose simple, pretty dressing gowns with lace or gingham details, cowboy boots tucked in the corner ready for later.
• Playlist: Our Song, Tim McGraw and Teardrops on My Guitar as you and your bridal party get ready together (and other old favourites from Taylor’s Debut Era).
• Vibe: Natural, rustic and intimate – just like the beginning of Taylor’s own story.

The Ceremony: Fearless, Speak Now, Lover

Your ceremony and wedding vows – whether the traditional script or personal ones you write yourself – are the heart of the day. Think romance, softness and fairytale charm. Fearless, Speak Now and Lover would all perfectly fit the vibe for this part of the day. You can lean into one more than the others, or incorporate elements from them all. 

• Decor: Pastel florals, blush and cream tones, candlelight lining the aisle.
• Fashion: A flowing princess-style gown (à la Fearless Tour) or a chic pastel suit for your partner. Bridesmaids could wear ombré pinks, referencing the Lover album cover.
• Music: Walk down the aisle to an instrumental of Love Story, Enchanted or Lover.
• “Wow” moment/bridal entrance: Arrive in a white horse-drawn carriage (White Horse-coded… you can actually find and book horse-drawn carriages on Bridebook!). 

Cocktail Hour: Folklore & Evermore

After the “I dos,” slip into the whimsical, woodland vibes and storytelling world of Folklore and Evermore – think woodland magic and intimate conversations. You could even leave a handwritten note at each table, just like a folk song, for guests to discover and keep.

• Venue styling: Mismatched vintage furniture (check out pre-loved wedding decor options on Bridebook), moss table runners, wildflower arrangements.
• Food & Drink: Offer guests signature cocktails like “The Invisible String” (gin and elderflower spritz) or “August” (a sweet peach Bellini).
• Entertainment: A live acoustic duo playing stripped-back Taylor songs from Folklore and Evermore, while guests converse and mingle.
• Vibe: Set up cosy corners with blankets, lanterns and flickering candles so guests can curl up and chat, creating that meet me behind the mall energy.

Dinner & Speeches: Red

As emotions run high and glasses are raised, lean into the passionate, bold spirit of Red. This is the perfect moment for heartfelt toasts and tear-jerking wedding speeches – the moving, nostalgic kind that leave everyone a little thoughtful and misty-eyed.

• Decor: Crimson florals, autumnal leaves, candlelit tablescapes, vintage glassware.
• Fashion: A glamorous red lipstick touch-up for the bride (classic Red-coded), with rich, jewel-toned dinner dresses for the wedding party.
• Music: Play the All Too Well instrumental (10-Minute Version) softly during the wedding breakfast, or weave your own, happy-ending version into your speech.
• Vibe: Emotional, warm and passionate – because loving him is red.

Reception: 1989 & Reputation

Now’s the time for high-energy sparkle and unapologetic fun. 

• Decor: Channel 1989 with vibrant neon signage, bold pops of colour and Polaroid-style table numbers, or lean instead into Reputation vibes with moody black-and-red accents, mirrored centrepieces and dramatic, head-turning lighting.
• Entrance: For pure pop glam, strut in to Style or Welcome to New York. If you’re after drama, go full …Ready For It? with strobe lighting and a fog machine.
• Final song: Soften the tempo by ending with New Year’s Day as a tender send-off.
• Vibe: Think high-octane dance floor, glittering champagne towers and the kind of party that makes your guests feel like they’ve just lived through their own Eras Tour finale.

Afterparty: Midnights

Turn your venue into a disco dreamscape post-midnight and beyond…

• Lighting: Bring in a giant disco ball with eye-catching blue-purple uplighting.
• Outfits: Consider a glittering reception dress change (Bejeweled-coded).
• Final flourish: Hand out shimmer sticks, glitter confetti or Midnights-coded, light-up bracelets so your guests can make the whole place shimmer.
• Vibe: Espresso martinis served at the bar, everyone dancing until 2am.

Extra Taylor-Coded Wedding Details

Even if you don’t want to split the day by Taylor’s Eras, you can scatter Swiftie touches throughout your wedding (and make them as overt or as subtle as you like).

• Invitations: Concert ticket-style, inviting guests to “The Wedding Tour.”
• Guestbook: Old-school Polaroids pinned to a board (giving 1989 Polaroid vibes).
• Table names: Use song titles instead of numbers (e.g. Enchanted, Wildest Dreams), or if the numbers work out, have each table named after an individual Era.
• Cake: Each tier could be inspired by an album (gold glitter for Fearless, woodland flowers for Folklore, sequins for Midnights etc.).
• Favours: Provide mini disposable cameras for guests to capture their own 1989-style Polaroids, or customised friendship bracelets with your initials and wedding date.
• Grand exit: Sparklers to Long Live (or your personal favourite Taylor anthem). 

Swiftie Tip: To avoid overloading your guests (and maybe also your partner!), consider picking one or two Eras you connect with most, and sprinkle in subtle references to the others. That way, your wedding will feel cohesive and still unmistakably Taylor-coded.

Plan Your Dream Taylor-Inspired Wedding Today 

Whether you go full Eras Tour and weave every album into your day, or choose just one or two Eras that feel most like you, a Taylor-inspired wedding is all about storytelling, magic and making your love the headline act. From a rustic Debut morning to a glittering Midnights afterparty, every detail can be sprinkled with Swiftie sparkle.

And just like Taylor’s music, your wedding should be unapologetically personal — a reflection of your story, your vibe, and the moments you’ll want to relive forever.

Ready to start planning your own enchanted day? Explore Bridebook’s wedding venues to find the perfect setting for your Era, and let the love story begin.

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Happy Planning!